Etiquette plays an important role in people's interactions. First of all, it can communicate people's feelings, feel the dignity of the people, and enhance people's sense of dignity. Second, it helps develop the friendship between our people and the peoples of all countries in the world. In foreign-related exchanges, observance of international conventions and certain etiquettes is conducive to Chinaâ€™s opening to the outside world, which is conducive to displaying the style of Chinaâ€™s ceremonial state; finally, health and necessary etiquette can win respect and affection from people, make friends, and avoid Gap and resentment. If a person is polite and treats people in daily life and work properly, he must be respectful, humble, and kind.
International social occasions, clothing is roughly divided into dresses and casual clothes. Formal, solemn, and serious occasions are dark dresses (tailcoats or suits), which can be worn casually in general. At present, except in some countries where there are other provisions (such as the typhoon campaign, prohibiting women from wearing trousers or miniskirts), wearing tends to be simplified.
There is no strict division between formal dress and casual dress in China. Generally speaking, on formal occasions, gay men wear tunics of the same color from top to bottom, dark suits of the same color from top to bottom and tie, and wear leather shoes of the same color as the clothes; informal occasions (such as visits, excursions, etc.) ), You can wear all kinds of casual clothes, national costumes, dual-purpose shirts, quotas appropriate color leather shoes or cloth shoes.
In foreign-related exchanges, the following items should be noted in the dress code:
Any clothing should be clean, tidy, and straight. Tops should be ironed and ironed out. Collars, cuffs should be clean, leather saddle should be oiled. Wear collars, collar hooks and trousers buckles when wearing out. Wearing long-sleeved shirts will be tucked into the trousers in the front and rear, the cuffs will not be rolled up, and the trousers will not be rolled up. If the two buckles and the western tops are buttons, they can be tied on one side, if it is a buttoned or multi-buttoned suit top. All should be deducted. Male lesbians should not wear shorts to participate in foreign-related activities under any circumstances. In summer, lesbians can wear sandals with bare feet. When wearing socks, socks should not be exposed to clothing and skirts.
Participate in a variety of foreign-related activities, into the indoor space should be removed hats and gloves, take off coats, raincoats, etc. into the depository. Western women's yarn gloves, gauze masks, hats, shawls, short jackets, etc., are allowed to be worn indoors as part of the garment. Indoor and outdoor, do not wear black glasses. When you have to wear colored glasses for a limited illness, you should explain it to your guests or your host. When you shake hands and talk, you will take off the glasses with you. When you leave, wear them again.
When you come to a temporary foreign visitor at home or in a hotel room, you may need to take a seat, change your clothes, put on your shoes and socks, and not receive your barefoot or underwear, pajamas, shorts, or slippers.
In communication occasions, they usually shake hands when they introduce and meet each other; they meet friends and say hello first, then shake hands and greeting each other; greetings are kind and they greet each other while shaking hands; even the two hands hold it together for a long time; Underneath it, you can shake it. However, the younger people should pay less attention to the seniors and the lower ones, and hold their hands to show respect. When a man shakes hands with a woman, she should only gently hold her finger.
There must also be a sequence of handshakes. The owner, seniors, and high-ranking individuals should be the first to reach out. The guests, the young, and the low-level person should meet and give greetings to each other. At the same time, many people clamor for hands and should not cross each other. They should wait for someone else to shake hands before reaching out. Men should take off their gloves and take off their hats before shaking hands. When you shake hands, you should look at each other with your eyes and smile.
In addition, some countries still have some traditional etiquettes, such as greetings and greetings when they meet in Southeast Asian countries that believe in Buddhism; the Japanese practice swearing; the traditional Chinese archers salute. These rituals can also be used on some occasions.
People who met in a public place from a distance to meet each other usually raise their right hand to say hello and nod their respects. They can also take off their hats to pay tribute. Meet with the acquaintance on multiple occasions on the same occasion and just nod their heads to pay tribute. For friends or strangers who are on the same side, they can nod or smile in social situations.
In foreign-related exchanges, when talking with foreign businessmen, expression must be natural, and the language should be friendly and expressive. You can make appropriate gestures during the conversation, but don't move too much, let alone dancing, and point your fingers. The distance between conversations should be moderate. Too close and too close are not suitable. Don't drag and pat.
Participate in conversations with other people must first say hello, when others are talking alone, do not go in front of one another; if something needs to be talked with someone, you can wait for others to finish talking; someone who actively speaks to himself should be willing to talk; find someone who wants to talk to themselves, can take the initiative Inquiries; third parties to participate in the conversation should be to shake hands, nodding or smiling to express welcome; if there is a need to leave during the emergency, you should say hello to the other party, apologize.
If there are more than three people during the conversation, you should occasionally have a few conversations with the people in the venue. Don't talk about the things that the two parties know with individual people, and let others down. If the problem is inconvenient for others to know, another opportunity may be given.
In communication occasions, one's own speech should give others the opportunity to express their opinions. On the other hand, when speaking by others, personal opinions should also be given in due course. Regarding the inconvenience that the other party has talked about, it should not be easy to change the subject. Be good at listening to the other person's speech, do not interrupt easily, and do not mention issues that are not related to the content of the conversation. When you are talking to each other, you should look at each other and show your concentration. Others do not look around, look absent-minded, or look at other places, watch old watches, etc., to make an impatient look, or do casual exercises such as stretching and playing.
Meet friends in social situations and introduce them to third parties. You can also introduce yourself. To introduce others, you must first understand whether the two sides have the desire to meet and do not rashly act. Whether you introduce yourself or introduce others, you must be natural. For example, among the people who are talking, as you are familiar with, you can say hello and the acquaintance will introduce you to other guests. When you introduce yourself, you need to take the initiative to clarify your name, identity, and unit (country), and the other party will introduce itself later. When introducing others, you should also explain your relationship with yourself so that new people you know and trust each other. When introducing other people, be polite and use your hands instead of using your fingers to point at others. There are also differences between the presentations. The low-identity, young age should be given to high-identity, older people and men should be introduced to women. At the time of introduction, except for women and elderly people, they should generally stand up. However, it is not necessary to stand up at the banquet table or the conference table. The person to be introduced can just smile and nod. The exchange of business cards is also a form of mutual introduction. When giving other people's business cards, they should hand out, smile, and look at each other. When accepting each other's business cards, they should also pick them up with both hands. They should also read out the other personâ€™s name in a soft voice, and then they must be solemnly stored. it is good.
When talking with foreigners, the content should not involve unpleasant matters such as illness or death, nor should they talk about bizarre, sensational, and obscene topics. You should not ask directly about the other partyâ€™s personal life issues such as his resume, salary income, family property, etc. The question that the other party does not want to answer should not be scrutinized, and the other party should apologize or immediately change the topic. In the conversation, we must not criticize the elders, high status people, talk about the internal affairs of the countries involved, and do not ridicule each other or others and do not casually discuss religious issues.
Men generally do not participate in womenâ€™s circlesâ€™ discussions. Talking to women is more humility and prudence. It is not advisable to ask women about their age and marital status, and not to talk about each other's body, health, income and private life. Don't joke with women, let alone talk endlessly so as not to arouse the opposition of the other person and others.
Polite language is used in conversations such as "hello", "please", "excuse me", "interrupt", "goodbye", etc. Say hello to the general face first, such as "How is your body?" "What's going on?" "Are everything going well?" People who meet new people often ask "Are you the first time to China (or local)?" "How long does it come to China? ""Do you like our city?" When speaking separately, "I am very glad to meet you and hope to meet again in the future." "Good night, please pay homage to your friend (mother, husband, etc.)" "Please ask the family "Wait.
Social conversation topics can also involve weather, news, work, etc., but they must pay attention to differences both inside and outside and keep state secrets.